Does anyone else feel like their creative mind is the best in the worst situations? Like in the middle of the night, sitting in traffic, or during an important work meeting? Even if I’m watching a movie or TV, I’ll notice a cute outfit and think of a new way to style it. My phone and planner are scattered with random notes and ideas. The fun thing about blogging is that I use it almost as my online diary. If you like what I have to say, stick around; if not, no hard feelings.
Last week I went to a Rising Tide Society meeting with some local girl bosses. If you are unfamiliar with the group, it’s a place for entrepreneurs and creatives to come together and educate, mentor, and build each other up. The purpose of the meeting was to discuss strategies on our personal businesses. Beforehand we had an assignment to take a personality test. The questions were sneaky, for example: ‘when given a task, how likely are you to finish it?’ or ‘Do you feel awkward in large groups of people?’ I was rated 75% extrovert and 25% introvert. I agree with my results on that aspect. The others were intuition vs. observant, thinking vs. feeling, judging vs. prospecting, and assertive vs. turbulent. I was almost 50/50 on those. The group was split up and we discussed our results and how to work with clients with opposite personalities. I thought it was so interesting how differently people think and how I was able to imagine being in someone else’s shoes.
While most of the extroverts agreed that being with people brings our spirits up, other people said that when they are in large groups of people, they need a day or two to wind down. I met a friend and her husband over the weekend and he said he didn’t mind waiting in the car while we finished up. It was a prime example of what a few of the ladies said in the meeting, crazy timing. What I appreciated most about the meeting was hearing how other people think and how they work through their insecurities.
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byincawithlove
17 Apr 2017Interesting post babe! Wish I could be “comfortable” when talking in front of “a lot of people”!! I’m not! Btw…you look gorgeous! Xo
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Me either! If you ever figure it out, let me know 😉 Thanks for reading!
John Luke Matthews
17 Apr 2017Yup, that’s why the best songs are heartbreaking!
Amber
17 Apr 2017I love that your heels pick up the colors in your scarf 🙂
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Thanks Amber!
Anita
18 Apr 2017I always have my most creative thoughts at the worst times especially when I dont have my phone or a computer neaby and I can’t write them down. Love the ensemble.
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Thanks Anita, I agree!
Ivana J
18 Apr 2017Pretty interesting way of thinking, i am trying to learn to feel more comfortable in front of crowds, and learning from others is way of learning xo
https://theninebyivana.blogspot.com/
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017I hate public speaking so I wish I could get used to that! Phew. Thanks for reading Ivana!
Latasha
18 Apr 2017Such a cute outfit! and I love your purse!
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Thanks Latasha!
riceandrepeat
18 Apr 2017This is really cool! I wish I could take the test. Do you know if they have it online? I always think of myself as an extrovert 100% but it’d be so interesting to find out!! xx
http://www.riceandrepeat.com
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Here it is! https://www.16personalities.com/ I thought I would have been almost 100% too!
Living Life Our Way
18 Apr 2017Sounds like a really interesting meeting! Love your look too btw! Katie 🙂 x
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Thank you so much Katie!
Julie
18 Apr 2017Everyone’s different. I definitely need some decompression time after being really “social” lol. Cute look btw!
Julie
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whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017So funny, once that was mentioned I have been noticing it more often!
Bailey
18 Apr 2017Love that handbag! So adorable.
whatrivawore
18 Apr 2017Thank you Bailey!
Linda
26 Apr 2017Absolutely adoring your blog and style Riva! And congrats on the new house! ?